Missed the live circle or want to revisit the ritual? 

You can journal in your notebook or voice memo if that is more your style.  But make sure you take some time to reflect. 

Week 3 - Optional Homework 

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Do what calls to you. 

This week, we move into the South—where fire lives.

This is about getting honest. Reclaiming what’s been dimmed. Letting your body, your truth, and your fire take up more space.
We’ll work with the energy of fire, the Wild Hearted Grandmother, and the medicine of the wolf.

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What you’ll need:

• Your white candle

• Something to add to your altar that represents your fire (desire, boldness, truth)

• Your sacred object for the week

• Pen and paper

• A quiet space for reflection

• Optional: a drum or music for movement, and a fire-safe bowl or candle for the ritual

This week is about coming back to your own spark, and tending it like it matters.

This week, choose a sacred object that feels bold, alive, or full of fire.

Let it represent your spark—your desire, your truth, your untamed self.

We’ll charge it during the ritual, and it will hold what you’re reclaiming.

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You might choose:

• A stone, crystal, or item that feels strong and grounded

• Something red, orange, or warm to the touch

• An object that reminds you of joy, anger, courage, or power

There’s no right choice—just trust what calls to you.

Let this object witness the fire you’re ready to stop hiding.

"We watched you shrink yourself to survive.

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We did too. We were burned, blamed, and silenced, and still, we danced.

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You don’t need permission to feel hunger—for touch, for truth, for more.

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You don’t owe anyone an apology for your fire. It was never too much.

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What if your anger isn’t a problem, but a prayer?

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Stop tending everyone else's flame. Tend your own.

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Burn clean. Burn holy. Burn honest.”